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The Garden-Now
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Joan Haber
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1/24/2009 3:10 AM
Good Morning!
 
Today’s lesson is a real eye-opener; at least it was for me. Years ago when I was going through a very hard time in my life, a counselor told me that my problem was that, “I did not perceive my own best interests”. I never really understood what he meant. Then, the first time I went through the Workbook lessons and came to Lesson 24 – I do not perceive my own best interests – I remembered what the counselor told me and thought to myself that I had better start paying attention to this statement! If I don’t know what my own best interests are, then how can I make reasoned choices for myself?
 
The best way to understand this lesson today is to actually do as the exercises instruct you to do, several times (the lesson suggests 5-2 minute sessions). If you do the lesson correctly, as paragraph 6 says, you will understand that you are setting yourself up for much unhappiness when you make contradictory and confusing demands on most of your life situations. It is no wonder we experience profound disappointment with our circumstances, isn’t it?
 

The goal for this lesson is to open our minds so that learning can begin. Why do you think we place contradictory demands on a situation? Do you think we can ever know what our own best interests are? Food for thought.

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craig
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1/24/2009 6:06 PM

I think our own best interests are not ours, or, that they belong to our ego. Only our God self, the Higher Self, knows what our own best interests are. Only by staying in constant tune to the Self will we understand that., and begin to live that. I was having difficulty with this one yesterday, because my ego kept getting in the way, trying to "rob" me of my greater truth, as I saw my attack thoughts project out of me. This work is challenging but necessary to shift my perception, as I began to give up attack thoughts.

Jerry Jordan
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1/24/2009 6:42 PM

We have been taught our whole lives to "look out for number one". We cannot trust the world to instantaneously meet our physical and emotional needs. If we don't take care of ourselves, who will? This lesson is about correcting the notion that we know what is best for us and introduces the theme of humility.

The first paragraph is a slap in the face to the ego.It essentially says we have no guide because we have chosen ourselves as a guide.  As it says in the text, "Resign now as your own teacher." (T-12.V.8:3) and "Remember nothing that you taught yourself, for you were badly taught." (T-28.I.7:1). Jesus is asking us to admit we don't understand anything and to let him teach us. This is challenging because of the part of us that believes we know what is best for ourselves.

We would have to truly know what our probelms, needs and desires are in order to know what in is our best interest. But as we have seen, the world and our bodies are literally made as a way of hiding the real problem of separation. In other words, our perceived needs and problems are a smoke screen to keep us focused on the physical and pcychological needs of the body. This distracts us from the mind where the real problem and answer can be found.

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